This week we celebrated Jenna Schnipper’s first birthday. It seems a little surreal to be doing this, because time has flown by. God blessed us with this little girl and in this year I think I have learned more about God, life, and myself then any other time. Here are some of the things I have learned.
- Patience: Not just patience with Jenna, but patience with others. I use to be so impatient with people if I was in a hurry and I felt as if they were not moving as fast as I thought they should. Being with Jenna has taught me to move slower and just enjoy life.
- Enjoy the Simple things: One of my greatest joys is taking Jenna to the store. I put her in the cart and you never know how she will be sitting or who she will attract by the end of the trip. We go to the store just to walk around and enjoy time together. The great joy is not in WHAT we are doing, but WHO I am doing it with.
- Start routines early: Peggy and I have talked about routines and traditions we would like to have as a family. Those have to be started now. No Jenna will not understand what or why we are doing some things for the next 2 or 3 years but she will learn that this is something very important.
- Creative Quality Time: With the nature of my schedule I have to be creative when it comes to getting to spend time with Jenna. During the school year I am at ball games, plays, or meetings many evenings a week. What I have found is that Jenna can go along on all of those. Jenna enjoys volleyball and basketball. I even took her with me to the last business meeting and walked around the back of the sanctuary while she crawled. I not only want to be part of her life, I want her to be part of my life.
These are just a few of the things I have learned in the last year.